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本帖最后由 493111241 于 2009-2-14 10:41 编辑
在看到乔丹老爸性侵犯乔丹姐姐的消息之后觉得相当震惊,但是隐约觉得奇怪,Deloris Jordan这个名字前不久真的有看到过,是在Yahoo Ball Don't Lie里面看到大神MJ的老妈Deloris Jordan扣篮,结果现在消息里面又说Deloris是MJ的姐姐,真是有些迷惑。
幸好我们有强大的google,终于搞明白,其实《In My Family's Shadow》这本书的作者是Deloris E.Jordan,她的确是Jordan的姐姐,也是这一家族五个孩子中最年长的。但是这本书事实上出版于2003年6月(另一些地方给出的时间是2001年,总之肯定不可能是消息中所说的“最近”)。在ecom网站上基本已经找不到有关这本书的销售讯息,只有在E-Bay上有人在转卖这本书,标价50美元,多亏了这个名叫vintagefashionista4381的卖家,不仅得以一睹这本传奇之书的包装,更可以多了解一些些内容……
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“这本书名叫《生活在家族的阴影背后》,作者是乔丹的姐姐Deloris E.Jordan,我手上的这本书真的非常难得。
我本人非常喜欢读传记或者回忆录型的书籍,这本书是我一个朋友几年前送给我的。
我必须承认,这本书是我读过的最能扭曲我灵魂的一本书。
Deloris在书中披露了自己的父亲如何夺走了自己的贞操,父亲如何继续对自己性侵犯(Sexual Abuse这在英语中尤指长辈对儿童的性侵犯),她的母亲是如何一直对自己精神虐待,而她的弟弟迈克尔-乔丹又是如何虐待自己。
这本书非常不可思议。看起来不可能重印了……”
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Being a member of a rich and famous family does not exclude us from a life filled with pain. We see a tragic snippet on the six o'clock news and wonder how things can go so dreadfully wrong in a life filled with material affluence? But all that glitters is not gold and Deloris Jordan, the eldest sister of acclaimed basketball legend Michael Jordan, sledgehammers that myth with an honest, brutal, and oftentimes painful recounting of what it meant for her to have spent the last forty plus years living in her family's shadow. Ripping the lid off of such family secrets as incest, the pressures of living in the public eye, and the resulting falsity of life under a microscope, Ms. Jordan shows us the inherent pride that causes us to sweep our family dysfunctions under the rug of reality. Moreso than a personal attack on family members In My Family's Shadow is a brutal, honest, and open account of Deloris Jordan, the self-proclaimed 'black sheep' of the family. Ms. Jordan skillfully exposes her pain in an effort to help others who may be going through similar situations, letting us know that regardless of what we suffer through in life, there is healing in God's wings, if we so choose to accept it. Acknowledging her own shortcomings and contribution to the pain that she endured Ms. Jordan gives us a first hand account of past secrets, low self-esteem, guilt, and the resulting anger that accompanies it. Whether you have suffered abuse in any form. Ms. Jordan's account enables us to look beyond the person's actions into the depths of a hurting individual, thereby allowing us to show compassion and empathy for those whose lives are filled with havoc. A must read, In My Family's Shadow is a heartfelt, poignant, pain-filled testimony to the unlimited power and might of a gracious and loving God. Focusing more on His redemptive attributes, Ms. Jordan's life shows us that the trials and tribulations that we go through in life are not merely for us alone, but can be used as a stepping stone for those who cannot see their way out of their own misery. Everything that God does has purpose, and Ms. Jordan shows us that her pain, while traumatic does serve a greater purpose. If only one person is helped by Ms. Jordan's life, then truly she has accomplished her mission her on earth. - Rosalind Stormer, author of 'Healing the Breach'
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